Hi,

Why not create a community were people may have an interest in your products.

The trick is to sell in a non deceptive, non threatening way.

Example, if you are selling flowers, don't sell flowers.

Create a community of let's say romance. The people in that community would be a possible sale.

Your adult site?

Maybe you can start an adult coomunity. Don't sell your adult site initially.

Sell the value what your community offer's. Provide a great place for people to "hang out".

Do not focus on sales, focus on building your community.