good luck...just one more thought ...if you are married and in a real partnership in this business,,,if she isnt just helping you out on the side, you cant very well have it where one has to have the final say all the time...yes in a specific area, like bossing the workers or paying the bills, but no on the main basic business decisions...
i am in paartnership with my husband...i started the business kind of,,,and sometimes we are in limbo or some desicion is up in the air for a long time until we work it out...we are really partners and cant just boss each other around....its not like its his business and im just helping ...we have to deal with consensus just like being married....
and then there is love that trumps other things sometimes....